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Delal AF\u015e\u0130N<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n \n \u0130nsanlar\u0131n pazarlarda sat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, k\u00f6lecili\u011fin yayg\u0131n olarak ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlar\u0131 filmlerde ya\u015fan\u0131r san\u0131r ya da ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fanan olaylar olarak bakard\u0131k. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz b\u00f6yle bir zaman\u0131n bizim ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z y\u00fczy\u0131lda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fece\u011fini akl\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ucundan bile ge\u00e7irmezdik.\u00a0\u00a0Hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc zorlayarak bunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen biri olsa ya da bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylese \u2018o d\u00f6nemler ge\u00e7ti eskiden insanlar bu kadar medeni de\u011fildi, geri kalm\u0131\u015f insanlard\u0131 ya da ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131 b\u00f6yle de\u011fildi\u2019 der ge\u00e7erdik. Ya\u015fanan s\u00fcre\u00e7lerin ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kalmas\u0131n\u0131 temenni eder, bu g\u00fcn bunlar\u0131n ya\u015fanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fcnya y\u0131k\u0131lsa bile tahmin etmezdik.<\/p>\n Ya\u015fam ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f ya da geli\u015fmi\u015f olmas\u0131 insanlar\u0131n uzay\u0131, ay\u2019\u0131 fethetmi\u015f olmalar\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 k\u00f6le zihniyetini a\u015ft\u0131lar anlam\u0131na gelmemektedir. K\u00f6lelik ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck zihniyetle ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 olan bir durumdur. K\u00f6lelik s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131nda ya\u015far ve bunu dayat\u0131rsan, mek\u00e2n\u0131n zaman\u0131n \u00e7ok anlam\u0131 olmaz. Orada ya\u015fanan zihniyet daha belirleyici olur.<\/p>\n K\u00f6leci zihniyetin ya\u015fanmas\u0131nda zaman ve mek\u00e2n\u0131n belirleyici olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 en son I\u015e\u0130D denen esasta ya\u015fam felsefesini cinsel g\u00fcd\u00fclerinin tatmini \u00fczerinde \u00f6rg\u00fctleyen, tek ya\u015fam gerek\u00e7esi bu olan insanl\u0131k de\u011ferleri ve inan\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n yozla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 temelinde kendini konumland\u0131ran olu\u015fumun kad\u0131na yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 k\u00f6leci zihniyetin a\u00e7\u0131k olarak pratikle\u015ftirilmesidir.<\/p>\n Bug\u00fcn kad\u0131nlar\u0131n pazarlarda k\u00f6le olarak sat\u0131lmas\u0131, istenildi\u011fi zaman tecav\u00fcz edilmesi, kendi \u00e7irkin y\u00fczlerini ve ruhlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeden kad\u0131nlar\u0131 g\u00fczel ya da \u00e7irkin olarak ay\u0131rarak \u00fccret belirlemeleri ve be\u011fenmedikleri kad\u0131n\u0131 da hemen \u00f6ld\u00fcrmeleri ya\u015fanan k\u00f6leci zihniyetin ak\u0131l durduran yan\u0131; I\u015e\u0130D olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n I\u015e\u0130D bu yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015fmi\u015f teknoloji ile d\u00fcnya ya g\u00f6stermekte adeta insanlara cehennem korkusunu ya\u015fatmaktad\u0131r. \u0130\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n bitirilmi\u015f insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kan\u0131tlarcas\u0131na t\u00fcm bunlar yap\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. Kad\u0131n \u015fahs\u0131nda toplumlar\u0131n ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 tehdit eden I\u015e\u0130D\u2019in yay\u0131nlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcler ve ya\u015fananlar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sessiz kalarak onun zihniyetine ortak olanlarsa ondan daha k\u00f6le oldu\u011funu kan\u0131tlamaktad\u0131r. Son y\u00fcz y\u0131l\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck belas\u0131 olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan I\u015e\u0130D\u2019in kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyan\u0131n g\u00f6rmesine ra\u011fmen kimseden ses sedan\u0131n \u00e7\u0131kmamas\u0131 ise bu \u015fiddetin ne kadar onaylad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermektedir.<\/p>\n Susmak onun sistemini onaylamak ve buna ortak olmakt\u0131r. Konu kad\u0131n yakla\u015f\u0131m oldu\u011funda nedense t\u00fcm d\u00fcnya anla\u015fm\u0131\u015f gibi \u00fc\u00e7 maymunlar\u0131 oynamaktan geri kalmamaktad\u0131r. D\u00fcnyada ya\u015fanan soyk\u0131r\u0131mlara kar\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyen kendini insan haklar\u0131 ve \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck savunucusu olarak yans\u0131tan \u00fclke ya da \u00fclkeler kad\u0131n soyk\u0131r\u0131mlar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir refleks g\u00f6stermemekte hatta kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 geli\u015ftirilen \u015fiddeti her yerde ve her zaman desteklemektedirler. Kendisini en demokrat olarak g\u00f6steren erkekte konu kad\u0131n oldu\u011funda egemenlikleri, cinsellik \u00fczerinden kurulmu\u015f iktidarlar\u0131 ellerinden gidecek diye bu \u015fiddeti g\u00f6rmezden gelmektedirler.<\/p>\n Kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fclen \u00fcst\u00fc kapal\u0131 ama esasta \u00e7ok a\u00e7\u0131k olan sava\u015f\u0131n d\u00fcnyan\u0131n her yerinde devam etmesine ra\u011fmen bunun ortadan kalkmas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7abalar\u0131n olmamas\u0131 erkek zihniyetinin kendini en \u00e7ok ya\u015fatt\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir durum haline gelmesinden kaynaklanmaktad\u0131r. Sava\u015flarda insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 i\u015flenen t\u00fcm su\u00e7larda yarg\u0131lamalar olurken kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 i\u015flenen su\u00e7lar\u0131n su\u00e7 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fclmemesi, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n ganimet olarak al\u0131n\u0131p-sat\u0131lmas\u0131, tecav\u00fcz\u00fc ya\u015fam\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 haline getirerek do\u011falla\u015ft\u0131rmalar\u0131 ve t\u00fcm ya\u015famlar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fcd\u00fclerinin esiri olarak ge\u00e7irmeleri I\u015e\u0130D ger\u00e7ekli\u011finde ve erkek karakterinde a\u00e7\u0131k olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n Ya\u015fam\u0131n her alan\u0131nda ve her an\u0131nda \u015fiddetle kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya kalarak ya\u015famak insanl\u0131k ad\u0131na ya\u015fanan en b\u00fcy\u00fck ay\u0131p olsa gerek. Biz bu ay\u0131b\u0131 her g\u00fcn ya\u015famam\u0131za ra\u011fmen hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yokmu\u015f gibi ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 devam ettiremeyiz. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n pazarlarda k\u00f6le olarak sat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nemleri aratmayan hatta onu bile a\u015fan bir d\u00f6nemde ya\u015famam\u0131za ra\u011fmen buna kar\u015f\u0131 hi\u00e7bir \u015feyin yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 i\u015fledi\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck su\u00e7 olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n Kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 uygulanan \u015fiddet ortadan kalkmad\u0131k\u00e7a toplumlar\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015fmesinden ve sava\u015flar\u0131n bitti\u011finden bahsetmek, insanl\u0131\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 su\u00e7 i\u015flemenin bir ba\u015fka y\u00f6n\u00fc olarak devam edecektir.<\/p>\n Toplumlar\u0131n \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc her iki cinsin \u00f6zg\u00fcr birlikteli\u011fi ve \u00f6zg\u00fcr e\u015fit ko\u015fullarda farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 da g\u00f6zeterek ya\u015fam\u0131 payla\u015fmalar\u0131ndan ge\u00e7mektedir. Bu g\u00fcn i\u00e7inde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d\u00fcnya ger\u00e7ekli\u011fine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda d\u00fcnyan\u0131n hi\u00e7bir yerinde b\u00f6yle bir ya\u015fam ko\u015fulunun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmekteyiz. \u00d6zg\u00fcr ortamlar da \u00f6zg\u00fcr birlik temelinde ya\u015famak i\u00e7in kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin, kad\u0131nlara kar\u015f\u0131 geli\u015ftirilen bu sald\u0131r\u0131lara dur demesi \u00f6zg\u00fcr geleceklerin yarat\u0131lmas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan belirleyici olacakt\u0131r. Kad\u0131na uygulanan g\u00fcnl\u00fck \u015fiddet kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda erke\u011finde m\u00fccadele y\u00fcr\u00fctmesi toplumsal \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sa\u011flanmas\u0131nda belirleyici bir ad\u0131m olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n Hi\u00e7bir erkek zihniyeti kad\u0131nlar\u0131n pazarlarda sat\u0131lmas\u0131, g\u00fcnl\u00fck olarak \u015fiddete maruz kalmas\u0131, tecav\u00fcze u\u011framas\u0131 ya da \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmesi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda tepki g\u00f6sterecek kadar kendisini \u00f6zg\u00fcrle\u015ftirmi\u015f de\u011fildir. Kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fclen ve sistemli olan bu i\u015fkence ya\u015fam\u0131n a\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 ancak kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kendi \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck aray\u0131\u015f\u0131 ve m\u00fccadelesi ile sonu\u00e7 alacakt\u0131r. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcne g\u00fcvenmemeleri ya da i\u00e7inde bulunduklar\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131 kader olarak ele al\u0131p de\u011ferlendirecekleri zaman \u00e7oktan ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir. Kendilerini erke\u011fin insaf\u0131na b\u0131rakmadan \u00f6rg\u00fctlenmelerini olu\u015fturacak ve geli\u015ftirecek ko\u015fullar ve imk\u00e2nlar her yerde ve her zaman vard\u0131r. Yeter ki m\u00fccadele etme azmi ve kararl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 geli\u015fsin.<\/p>\n \n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Delal AF\u015e\u0130N \u0130nsanlar\u0131n pazarlarda sat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, k\u00f6lecili\u011fin yayg\u0131n olarak ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlar\u0131 filmlerde ya\u015fan\u0131r san\u0131r ya da ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fanan olaylar olarak bakard\u0131k. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ya\u015fand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz b\u00f6yle bir zaman\u0131n bizim ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z y\u00fczy\u0131lda ger\u00e7ekle\u015fece\u011fini akl\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ucundan bile ge\u00e7irmezdik.\u00a0\u00a0Hayal g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc zorlayarak bunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen biri olsa ya da bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylese \u2018o d\u00f6nemler ge\u00e7ti eskiden insanlar bu kadar medeni de\u011fildi, geri […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":695,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-694","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kadin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/694","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=694"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/694\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":696,"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/694\/revisions\/696"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/695"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=694"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=694"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tirki.komunar.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=694"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}